I haven’t had to do anything this hard in a very long time. It is such a thin line when you have to choose between your own happiness and that of a close friend. I wish it wasn’t one or the other, but the past year and a half definitely caused tension, whether passive or active. We’ve had interventions, side remarks, and passive aggression. And you didn’t change at all, not even the slightest. If you say that we are “best friends” why can’t you be more considerate of us and how we feel. The world doesn’t revolve around you; we are not living in YOUR world. I’m the type of person who, unfortunately, forgets things, but reflecting on the past brought back many instances that are not okay.
I know this conversation is going to be very awkward. Hopefully in time, things will be better, but for now I am just very sorry. This time I choose ME.